Court Jester takes your hand and guides you around.
of brick and wet concrete.
And then turned his heel on the ways of Hotel Pine St.
I have to keep reminding myself that this isn’t a “soul searching” piece. I know where my soul is, he’s on the couch eating Fig Newtons and falling asleep watching the Science Channel. He comes around every so often to remind me how ridiculous I am. I have no problem with knowing that that little piece of me that I was looking for has been with me for a lot longer than I thought. I have to snap myself out of this, because it felt like I was blogging about mid-life crisis things. I’m turning 40 soon, and the last thing I want to do is write about something that would bore me to tears if it were 20 years ago; I do not want to go down the Sad Old Bastard route, so put down the Big Chill soundtrack, put down the doobie and understand that although I will look back fondly in spirit, I kind of lost the directions to go home again. I had them once, I lent them to that Zimmerman fella. Haven’t seen him since.
I know why I left. The road, whether it’s high, low or less traveled is nothing more than a concept unless you put your feet to it. It’s a wanderlust; something that needed addressing before I got to old to care or do anything about it. Beyond a career that may or may not exist, the bigger item on the agenda that needed attention was the itch that needed scratching by getting up, getting out and doing something.
But that doesn’t mean that my mind drifts back homeward. It doesn’t mean that I’ll never give in to nostalgic fits.
I know why I left, but I’m not sure if I gave a proper farewell. Does anybody?
Memories filter in like sunrise through an afghan. I remember waking up in interesting positions on the floor in the living room, unlit cigarette in one hand, full Big-Gulp sized container of coffee in the other, notes and crude model making supplies strewn all about me, glue in my hair, permanent ink on my fingers, because I waited until the last minute to finish my final project. Again.
I remember a night when we were hungrier than usual, no money in our pockets and a kitchen that was running on empty. We had to dig deep, and so we did…to the back of the pantry where we unearthed (wait for it) C-Rations. Specifically, dehydrated scrambled eggs. Specifically, dehydrated scrambled eggs that look like they’ve been stowed away in the pantry since the Vietnam War. Literally, it was either this, or condiment sandwiches without the bread. I remember putting down my powdered egg stained fork and thinking….this ain’t so bad.
I remember an occasion at one of our hosted parties. For some reason, a gathering of around 15 people found themselves sitting on the floor in the back hallway. A friend of mine was sitting across from me. This guy would go on at length about Vishnu and all her crazy cousins; he had an extensive knowledge of Eastern Religion and he’d always be more than happy to let you know it too. He and I gave each other the “hi sign” and started to hum a low, guttural, tantric chant. We weren’t loud, but it was loud enough to carry itself over a cacophony of conversation and a white noise snow squall of music from another room. It was mostly sibilance, I’m sure it meant something in Sanskrit or whatever, but it was fun to get the walls to vibrate. It was even more fun to get everybody else to join in and get the entire apartment to vibrate.
I remember love found and love lost. I remember the faces changing and the landscape staying the same. I remember walking through a room at another party at another address and noticing the blank, unimpressed faces and listening to the absence of conversation. It felt like we all had the same expression on our face, and we were all thinking the same thing: “What the fuck are we doing here?”. From that moment on, I could not help but think that this attitude has transcended into my every day life. “What the fuck am I doing here?” became a mantra; a wake up call. It was the first inkling of growing up; it was the grease in the hamster wheel. I felt it was time to move on.
On November 28th of this year, the last in a long line of us finally felt the same urge as well, over 20 years later. My gentle giant of a friend felt it was time to move on. After some gentle urging, those of us that remained in Portland decided to get together for one last hurrah, one last night of celebration, one last night within the walls of Hotel Pine St. Those of us that moved on, could only be there in spirit, leaving us to send our goodbyes through other means.
Goodbye to the rickety staircase and ugly hallway that we beautified with the help of friends, alcohol, a few paint brushes and a love for Dr. Seuss.
Farewell to the windowed hallway that looked out over an abandoned courtyard.
So long to every upstairs neighbor that tried their damnedest to redecorate the apartment above us. Maybe now it could finally become a reality.
Adios to the summer time ritual of a decent pub crawl with dear friends and ending up at that baseball themed diner in the old port that was always bursting to capacity with other drunken heathens. Au revoir to the brilliant sunrises that were often delighted from on the roof after a long night of commiserating and laughter. Tonight is the final night of 2009. In a manner of days, I’ll be officially a grown up, not that I needed any help with that with the gray hairs, pot belly and rugrat scurrying everywhere. Tonight, I shall raise a bottle to all of us; To all of you and your beautiful families, here’s to you. Here’s to us, by God. Here’s to the privileges of youth, and to us, and to what has been, and what will be…
He missed the boat for the November Breeze,
And had to hitch a ride on a December Freeze.
I had better words to make this reprise,
But that was so many years ago.
Now I’m old enough to know
For a while, I laughed with the elite.
But now I’m just another stray of Hotel Pine St.
It only took me the better part of a month to complete, but here it is, a belated Christmas present for my friends back home. I may be late for Christmas, but I’m right on time for the end of the year.
This is a montage constructed out of various resources, mainly photographs from my friends taken from the early ’90s to the final night of revelry this passed November. The soundtrack I chose is R.E.M.’s Time After Time from Reckoning. Somewhat because they were in some fashion or another always on our stereo (before they got old and corporate sponsorship). But, mostly because it’s about good friends getting together, getting a little too drunk and doing something foolish.
I thought it most appropriate.